Surjasikha Das on Friendship: "True Bonds Are Quiet, Deep, and Don't Require Constant Upkeep"

Mumbai: As Friendship Day approaches, actress Surjasikha Das, known for her roles in Gutar Gu Season 3 and the film Maa, is reflecting on the true meaning of friendship in a world full of noise. She believes that the most genuine friendships aren’t the loudest but are the ones that provide quiet support and unconditional understanding.

Surjasikha admits she doesn't celebrate Friendship Day with grand gestures or social media posts. "I don’t go all out for Friendship Day, but I do quietly cherish the ones who’ve stood by, not just in laughter, but in silence too," she says. "As we grow, friendships don’t vanish, they just become quieter, deeper, and fewer. You stop chasing crowds and start protecting your energy." This perspective highlights her preference for quality over quantity when it comes to her social circle.

The actress is also pragmatic about friendships within the entertainment industry, acknowledging the challenges. "It is tough; not impossible, just rare," she states, noting the competitive nature of the business. "Everyone’s looking out for themselves, and there’s a lot of groupism. But I’ve learned that real friendships can’t be forced. If it’s meant to be, it’ll happen naturally." Despite the difficulties, she maintains hope and has met some good people along the way, even if true friendships are hard to come by.

For Surjasikha, the best way to spend time with friends is in a relaxed, comfortable setting. She prefers a peaceful evening at home over a loud party. "A space where you don’t have to perform, where even silences are comforting. No pressure, no pretending, just being yourself. That, to me, is the true connection." This view underscores her desire for authentic interactions free from the performative aspects often found in social gatherings.The actress also holds on to her childhood friends with a deep sense of loyalty.

"I’m still in touch with a few, maybe two or three friends from school and college," she shares. "We don’t talk every day, sometimes not even for months, but I know I can call them at 3 AM and they’ll pick up. That’s the kind of bond that doesn’t need constant upkeep." She also reflects on how friendships have changed, noting that they were "effortless" back then, contrasting with the formality and layers that exist in modern-day interactions.

When asked about her first true friend, Surjasikha’s thoughts turn to her mother, Niru. "She’s the one who taught me what real friendship feels like, unconditional, honest, and always present," she says. "She’s been my first and forever kind of friend." This heartfelt tribute reveals the profound influence her mother has had on her understanding of true friendship, setting a high standard for all her relationships.